Believe it or not we have a strange problem when it comes to love. We’ve defined it in terms that go above and beyond what God intended. Some of that problem has to do with how we actually interpret the word. Unfortunately the English language is poor at times to convey properly the meaning of some words.

     There is a huge difference in the meaning of the word ‘love’. I love Whataburger and I love a thick juicy steak and I love my wife and kids. It just won’t do! In today’s culture we have overextended the use of the word. We use it to cover the sin and shame that people sometimes engage in and call it love. We’ve twisted to allow what God does not. We use it to approve of unbiblical behavior.

     Then as if that were not enough we look down on anyone who would dare use it to stop immoral behavior. Gods word tells us that love is obedience to Gods word. Love is not a license to sin. Love is not this huge blanket that just covers whatever everyone wants to do just because they have some emotional attachment to someone or something. Jesus narrowed it down to two things: Love God, and love others.

     We are commanded by God to do these two things. Sometimes loving others means loving rebuke, or correction. It can mean warning others of the path they are on. Parents call this tough love. God calls it obedience to his word. If we love God we will obey his commands regardless if they are convenient or not. Irregardless of our present day culture.

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